Today I was perusing through some of my previously starred items on Google Reader (I usually star them if I think I would like to read them again later) and I refound this gem by Teresa Basich on Overcommunicated (which sadly no longer exists). After years of putting energy into everyone but myself, it’s time I take a stand for ME in my life. I’ve commited to putting myself first and this is what that commitment looks like. I will give confidence a chance. I will draw boundaries. I will look for love and support within. I will strive for balance instead of living in extremes. I will accept that my friends and family won’t hate me for putting myself first. I will accept that some of those friends or family might not like or understand the changes I make. I will start my days with openness, and trust that life and the universe will take care of me. I will find ways to hone my focus and productivity. I will honor and recognize my achievements and reward myself for them. I will ...